It's a big world http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com let us help you find YOUR mate online! Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:39:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 en Celebrity Dating Game: Jen Aniston http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/09/05/celebrity-dating-game-jen-aniston/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/09/05/celebrity-dating-game-jen-aniston/#comments Fri, 05 Sep 2008 14:35:59 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/09/05/celebrity-dating-game-jen-aniston/ Karin says

Help Jennifer Aniston (and yourself ) by figuring out her

DATING PATTERNS!

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What doesn’t work for Jen and what should she change?     

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Our favorite comment will win a FREE month of Coaching!

HELPFUL HINT

Imagine a collage of your former dates on a huge billboard!

What comment would people make about all the men or women in your life?

Are they all…

…Jocks?  …High Maintenance?  …Bad boys?  …Artsy?  …Frat boy/girls? 

  • Is each person the exact opposite from the last person you dated as if you’re searching for something?
  • Is each person the same Bad Boy that you’re trying to change into the solid family man OR the High-Maintenance Chick you’re trying to interest in your athletic passions?

Bottom line:  How’s that working for you?!

We’ll post the ONLINE DATING COACHES advice next month!

]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/09/05/celebrity-dating-game-jen-aniston/feed/ Who gets to be OPRAH? http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/08/07/who-gets-to-be-oprah/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/08/07/who-gets-to-be-oprah/#comments Thu, 07 Aug 2008 17:54:17 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/08/07/who-gets-to-be-oprah/ Dear Oprah, As the ONLINE DATING COACHES, we’d like to be the mini-me versions of you and Gayle!  We’re already best friends, now one of us just needs to become the richest and most powerful woman in the world! We LOVED your Oprahly advice in the June issue of “O” where you brilliantly stated:  ”You’re not your body [...]]]> >Karin says

Dear Oprah,

As the ONLINE DATING COACHES, we’d like to be the mini-me versions of you and Gayle!  We’re already best friends, now one of us just needs to become the richest and most powerful woman in the world!

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We LOVED your Oprahly advice in the June issue of “O” where you brilliantly stated:

 ”You’re not your body image…”

But, honestly, it left us wanting more!

We tried thinking like you, Oprahy, we really did.  But then we’d pass by a mirror or something shiny and start obsessing about wrinkles and saggy arms.

So how can we be the image we desire???

As the Online Dating Coaches, we wanted to provide an answer to this important question for our clients, and, after several bottles of wine tirelessly researching the matter with scientific methods, we came up with the answer:

FIX AND SWITCH!

First, take a SIMPLE STEP towards fixing your problem instead of obsessing about it.

For example, if you hate that you’re going bald, then get a handsome, close-cropped haircut.

If you hate your weight, join a program like Weight Watchers.

Then SWITCH to obsessing about your passions like…

… golf / cooking / motorcycle riding / traveling / tennis / fishing / wine / football / knitting / sailing, etc.!

Want a copy of the “O” magazine article?

Want to learn how we can personally coach you to marriage?

Email us!

Coaches@FindingYourMateOnline.com

]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/08/07/who-gets-to-be-oprah/feed/ The Wall Street Journal on LOVE?! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/05/08/the-wall-street-journal-on-love/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/05/08/the-wall-street-journal-on-love/#comments Thu, 08 May 2008 16:33:26 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/05/08/the-wall-street-journal-on-love/ Karin says 

What’s love got to do with the Wall Street Journal?

Everything… if you want to be successful in love!

And, naturally, the ONLINE DATING COACHES want you to be successful!

According to the WSJ in their article:

“If at First You Don’t Succeed, You’re in Excellent Company,”

Successful people all share a common trait: FAILURE!

So how do they turn these failures into success?

And, more importantly –

HOW CAN YOU TURN YOUR FAILURE IN LOVE TO SUCCESS IN ONLINE DATING?

Well, first you take Einstein’s theory… just kidding!

It’s actually incredibly easy.

According to the Wall Street Journal,

“What makes some people rebound from defeats and go on to greatness while others throw in the towel?  Psychologists call it “self-efficacy,” the unshakable belief some people have that they have what it takes to succeed!” Some examples?“Harry Potter’s” author was rejected 12 times!

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Decca Records passed on the BEATLES — yes, the BEATLES! — saying “We don’t like their sound.”

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Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team.

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As promised, we’ll tell YOU how to follow in their footsteps to success in online dating.  

1.  Cut out a picture of someone famous you admire, anyone from Brett Favre to Oprah.  Whoever inspires YOU!

2.  Cut out a picture from a magazine, newspaper, etc. similar to the person you imagine your future mate looks like. Post those pictures by your computer for whenever you get discouraged — another trait ALL successful people share — and those pictures will inspire you to keep going until you meet your future mate.

Exactly how the ONLINE DATING COACHES meet their mates and have been happily married since 2001 and 2003!

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]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/05/08/the-wall-street-journal-on-love/feed/ You can be RIGHT… or you can be HAPPY! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/03/16/you-can-be-right-or-you-can-be-happy/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/03/16/you-can-be-right-or-you-can-be-happy/#comments Mon, 17 Mar 2008 01:08:06 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/03/16/you-can-be-right-or-you-can-be-happy/ Karin says

Seems like a simple question, doesn’t it?

Do you want to be right?  Or do you want to be happy?

Any sane person would say:

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So how come you keep talking about your bad dates and your lousy exes and all the liars on the internet, yada… yada… yada?

Sure, you’re right, but you’re attracting a lot of bad mojo!

And it’s a circle that never ends. 

Talk about bad stuff… bad stuff happens…

Talk about this new bad stuff… more bad stuff happens… and on… and on… and on!

Ready to try being happy?

I’ve got TWO incredibly simple tips for you!

1. Watch your language.  Use only positive language, especially when negative things happen!

2.  Create your WISH LISTS.    Write down exactly what you want in a mate and what you have to offer. 

Want to learn more?

You can download a podcast on this topic for FREE

Listen to Online Dating Coach on internet talk radio

or you can read a more detailed explanation in our book on page 24:  

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]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/03/16/you-can-be-right-or-you-can-be-happy/feed/ Radio show tips! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/09/radio-show-tips/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/09/radio-show-tips/#comments Sat, 09 Feb 2008 23:58:56 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/09/radio-show-tips/ Karin says

Here are some tips from my FEBRUARY SHOW:

VALENTINE’S DAY

Surviving the holidays when you’re single!

Want to download the show to listen onto your iPod or computer?

It’s FREE!  Just click on this button:  

Listen to Online Dating Coach on internet talk radio

and look for the DOWNLOAD selection. Here are some tips from the radio show!

You have the power to find your mate and –

You have the power to create enjoyable holidays!

TIP #1

Don’t like a holiday — just don’t celebrate it!

Sounds too easy, but it really is that simple.

For example, when I was single, I scheduled a trip every New Year’s Eve because I don’t like to stay up late and drink, and I especially don’t like to be reminded at midnight that I’m starting the new year alone!

Some of my favorites were going to Cuba with friends and driving to Joshua Tree alone and indulging myself!

Need help figuring out someplace to indulge yourself?

Check out these great books!

TIP #2

Love the holiday, just hate how it’s celebrated?

Remember what you loved about the holiday as a child –

– then make the day about your passion AND doing something to feel good about yourself.

(Coaching note — volunteering is the simplest and cheapest self-esteem booster!)

For example, LOVE Valentine’s Day AND sports?

Host a Valentine’s Day poker party to raise money for your sports team’s favorite charity!

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For NFL fans, check out this website:

www.jointheteam.com

Hockey fans:

www.hockeyfightscancer.com

Or google your favorite team and the word charity.

I’d love to hear your experiences after you put my tips to use!

Email me:

Karin@FindingYourMateOnline.com

]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/09/radio-show-tips/feed/ VALENTINES 2008: Surviving the holidays when you’re single! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/05/valentines-2008-surviving-the-holidays-when-youre-single/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/05/valentines-2008-surviving-the-holidays-when-youre-single/#comments Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:16:57 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/05/valentines-2008-surviving-the-holidays-when-youre-single/ Karin says

Talk to Online Dating Coach Karin on Saturday, February 9th, at 3pm PST or

Listen anytime on your computer or iPod!  

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How?

Listen to Online Dating Coach on internet talk radio

Call (347) 945-5467 on Saturday, February 9th, at 3pm PST!

What can be simpler than picking up the phone?!

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Want to listen anytime?  Click on the Blog Talk Radio button above.

February’s topic: 

VALENTINES 2008:  Surviving the holidays when you’re single!

Looking forward to hearing from you.

]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/02/05/valentines-2008-surviving-the-holidays-when-youre-single/feed/ Visualize your DREAM DATE! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/30/visualize-your-dream-date/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/30/visualize-your-dream-date/#comments Wed, 30 Jan 2008 15:29:28 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/30/visualize-your-dream-date/ Karin says

Popular books like

  • “THE SECRET”

and

  • “THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING”

recommend you visualize your desires. The ONLINE DATING COACHES agree!But how exactly do you achieve this visualization?Here’s a simple way to achieve your dating desires:

TWO WORDS:  “DREAM DATE”

Before you go to sleep every night, imagine a scene from a favorite movie involving you and your future mate:

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Dancing to “What a Wonderful World” with a Harrison Ford-type (Witness)

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Running like your heart will burst to proclaim your love to a Meg Ryan-type on New Year’s Eve (When Harry Met Sally)

Dream about –

  • You and your mate sipping espresso in a Parisian cafe…
  • How safe and loved you feel as he or she strokes your hair…
  • How much you both enjoy snuggling in bed on a rainy Sunday morning…

It’s an easy and enjoyable way to follow the advice of great books like

  • “THE SECRET”

and

  • “THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING”

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]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/30/visualize-your-dream-date/feed/ Great GOOGLE advice for dating! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/25/great-google-advice-for-dating/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/25/great-google-advice-for-dating/#comments Fri, 25 Jan 2008 19:09:08 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/25/great-google-advice-for-dating/ Karin says

My husband recently shared some great advice from Google’s Chief Information Officer.

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Who knows more about managing information than Google?!

Here are some excerpts from the article… sound familiar?

“The first step to organization is recognizing that you’re human

and you’re going to forget most things.”

- Douglas Merrill, CIO Google

“Paper remembers, people forget.”

- Peter Turla, Efficiency expert

And from our book, “FINDING YOUR MATE ONLINE” (p. 127):

“Writing allows us to gather our thoughts.“

- The ONLINE DATING COACHES

So… when we coach you to WRITE DOWN your

WISH LISTS (start p. 37)

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SECRET SCREENER (start p. 117)

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DATE RECAP (start p. 192)

Remember that it’s good advice from GOOGLE also!

*Want the full article entitled:  “The World’s Most Organized Man”?

Email me and I’ll send you a .pdf file!

Karin@FindingYourMateOnline.com

 

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To follow is summary of my RADIO TALK show on Saturday, January 19th: 

Online Dating Tips:  Use the EASY BUTTON

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Want to down listen to the show and/or download it to your computer or iPod?

It’s FREE and EASY! 

Just go to

www.FindingYourMateOnline.com/links

to listen, download (click on PROFILE) or to subscribe to the monthly show (SUBSCRIBE).

Need help?   Email Karin@FindingYourMateOnline.com

 EASY BUTTON TIP #1

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Well, you’re going to use the EASY BUTTON in ONLINE DATING by figuring out some times that work for you – based upon your lifestyle and your schedule – to devote to your online dating. 

That might be using our book – “Finding Your Mate Online,” to work on your WISH LISTS or your

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or just corresponding with potential dates. 

For our COACHING CLIENTS who are listening, this will be a time you devote to your goals we’ve developed together this week. 

And a big part of the EASY BUTTON is making it FUN.  Here’s one example – you can figure out how to apply this example to your life. Let’s say the two least busy times in your life are: 

  1. Wednesday at lunch and
  2. Saturday afternoons when you run errands, straighten the house, that type of thing. 

So, all you have to do block out that time in your calendar as busy –

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just block out that time and make it special! 

Remember, I just said a big part of the EASY BUTTON is making it fun, so, for example, every Wednesday at lunch you’re going to go to a nearby Internet Café – one that’s comfortable, has great food, and you

either rent a computer or bring your laptop…

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… that’s your “me-time” to devote to online dating.  Just make it a regular part of your lifestyle.  If someone asks you to do Wednesday lunches, just schedule for another day – you don’t need to say why.  Same thing, if, for example, on a Saturday afternoon.  Make it a fun habit to go to an Internet Café or coffee shop or even the library. 

It’s simply a matter of creating an enjoyable and effortless routine – then suddenly you find yourself having invested at least 8 hours a month in online dating – and it’s all fun and stress-free. 

That’s TIP # 1 for using the

EASY BUTTON

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in ONLINE DATING!

]]> http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/19/online-dating-tips-use-the-easy-button/feed/ Talk with Online Dating Coach Karin! http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/10/talk-with-online-dating-coach-karin/ http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/10/talk-with-online-dating-coach-karin/#comments Thu, 10 Jan 2008 20:27:33 +0000 The Online Dating Coaches http://blog.findingyourmateonline.com/2008/01/10/talk-with-online-dating-coach-karin/ Karin says

Listen to Online Dating Coach on internet talk radio

Join me on my show:

“ONLINE DATING TIPS”

The 3rd Saturday of every month at noon PST (Los Angeles time)

where you can do all this for FREE —

  • Learn helpful Online Dating Tips
  • Call in and ask questions to Online Dating Coach Karin
  • Download copies of the show to your iPod anytime!

Don’t miss January 19th’s show:

“ONLINE DATING TIPS: Use the EASY BUTTON!”

Want to be alerted to all my shows?  It’s easy, of course!

PAPER-LOVER:  Mark on your calender the 3rd Saturday of every month at noon.  Then call in to (347) 945-5467 at noon PT (Los Angeles time)

MAKE MINE AUTOMATIC:  Subscribe via RSS feed to your account (”My Yahoo” “My AOL” “Google” etc.) by clicking on the link below.

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QUESTIONS:  Email me!

Karin@FindingYourMateOnline.com

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