Archive for 19 January 2008

Online Dating Tips: Use the EASY BUTTON

Karin says

To follow is summary of my RADIO TALK show on Saturday, January 19th: 

Online Dating Tips:  Use the EASY BUTTON

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 EASY BUTTON TIP #1

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Well, you’re going to use the EASY BUTTON in ONLINE DATING by figuring out some times that work for you – based upon your lifestyle and your schedule – to devote to your online dating. 

That might be using our book – “Finding Your Mate Online,” to work on your WISH LISTS or your

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or just corresponding with potential dates. 

For our COACHING CLIENTS who are listening, this will be a time you devote to your goals we’ve developed together this week. 

And a big part of the EASY BUTTON is making it FUN.  Here’s one example – you can figure out how to apply this example to your life. Let’s say the two least busy times in your life are: 

  1. Wednesday at lunch and
  2. Saturday afternoons when you run errands, straighten the house, that type of thing. 

So, all you have to do block out that time in your calendar as busy –

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just block out that time and make it special! 

Remember, I just said a big part of the EASY BUTTON is making it fun, so, for example, every Wednesday at lunch you’re going to go to a nearby Internet Café – one that’s comfortable, has great food, and you

either rent a computer or bring your laptop…

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… that’s your “me-time” to devote to online dating.  Just make it a regular part of your lifestyle.  If someone asks you to do Wednesday lunches, just schedule for another day – you don’t need to say why.  Same thing, if, for example, on a Saturday afternoon.  Make it a fun habit to go to an Internet Café or coffee shop or even the library. 

It’s simply a matter of creating an enjoyable and effortless routine – then suddenly you find yourself having invested at least 8 hours a month in online dating – and it’s all fun and stress-free. 

That’s TIP # 1 for using the

EASY BUTTON

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in ONLINE DATING!

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