The ABC’s of MONOGAMOUS dating!

How do I know when my relationship becomes monogamous ?

The answer is simple, but my job is to COACH you in learning the answer!

Ask yourself: 

How do SUCCESSFUL people know anything?

Successful people –

• DO ask questions.
• DO communicate until they get the answer.

Unsuccessful people –

• DON’T ask questions, just assume…
• DON’T speak up, but expect other people to reveal the answer!

In terms of online dating, if you desire a monogamous relationship, follow what the successful daters do with these ABC’s of Monogamous Dating!

Advertise your desire for a monogamous relationship when you place an ad and/or Answer only ads expressing the same interest.

“If you’re looking for a fun and passionate companion that may lead to a fun and passionate monogamous relationship, email me and include several photos!”

Be clear in your desires.  Reiterate at some point in your email correspondence: 

“I’ve met some great people dating online, but now I’m looking for someone I can eventually have a monogamous relationship with.  What are you looking for?”

Check-in after a set period of time.  “I’ve really had a great time dating these last 3 months and I’d like to have a monogamous relationship with you.  Do you feel the same way?”

If the answer is anything other than a resounding YES, move on.