How do I know when my relationship becomes monogamous ?

The answer is simple, but my job is to COACH you in learning the answer!

Ask yourself: 

How do SUCCESSFUL people know anything?

Successful people –

• DO ask questions.
• DO communicate until they get the answer.

Unsuccessful people –

• DON’T ask questions, just assume…
• DON’T speak up, but expect other people to reveal the answer!

In terms of online dating, if you desire a monogamous relationship, follow what the successful daters do with these ABC’s of Monogamous Dating!

Advertise your desire for a monogamous relationship when you place an ad and/or Answer only ads expressing the same interest.

“If you’re looking for a fun and passionate companion that may lead to a fun and passionate monogamous relationship, email me and include several photos!”

Be clear in your desires.  Reiterate at some point in your email correspondence: 

“I’ve met some great people dating online, but now I’m looking for someone I can eventually have a monogamous relationship with.  What are you looking for?”

Check-in after a set period of time.  “I’ve really had a great time dating these last 3 months and I’d like to have a monogamous relationship with you.  Do you feel the same way?”

If the answer is anything other than a resounding YES, move on.

youvegotnomessages@___.___

 You know something?  She’s right!

She has created a world for herself as recently expressed in the hit book and movie

“THE SECRET“                                   

along with the classic

“THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING“

“Whatever the mind can conceive…

and believe…

it can achieve!”

So if you create a screen name which states, even as a joke –

You’ve Got No Messages

That’s exactly what you’re creating!

Want some Coaching on your screen name?

You can post the first part of your screen name (don’t include the @ or what follows it) in our comments section and the Coaches guide you to a successful screen name!

p.s.  I met my husband using the screen name TrueBlueFemme